Friday , November 24 2023

Men List Reasons Why Dating Single Mums Could Be A Hazard

A journalist set out to do a quick study on relationship with single mums. The men that were interviewed gave reasons why they would not want to get into a relationship with single mums.

One of the men who said they will not date single mums revealed the shocking reasons he avoids them, claiming they have ‘questionable judgement skills’ and ‘think the world revolves around them’.

Richard Cooper also shares a vile meme which describes their bodies as “ruined” and says their child will just “eat your money and destroy your dreams”.

He spoke about the ‘hazards of dating single mothers’ at an event, listing nine reasons he believes it’s a bad idea.

The dad claims he dated a mum of two boys for three years, so says he is speaking from experience.

When sharing the rude meme, he says: “There is truth in ever joke.
“When you see stuff like that you’ve got to think about it.”

His first reason is extra heartbreak after the split, saying: “When she goes, they go too. You’ll never see them again and even though they might have driven you nuts you have double or triple the heartbreak.

“It’s very easy for them to end the relationship because they’ve done it before. It’s easy fot them to move along and just slide into the next relationship.”

He also claims mums has questionable judgement skills and says you will never be a priority.

“Save yourself for somebody else that has the capacity and the time.
He also says that too much time is “eaten up” by the kids.

He then says single mums “think the world revolves around her and her kids” and even says her children will work against you.

Richard also claims they are emotionally unavailable and rarely take ownership of mistakes in their lives.

He also believes they have a “distorted self image”, saying: “All you have to do is go on any dating app, you’ll see single mums on there they think they’re a 10 when they’re like a 6.

“Everybody has had that experience I’m sure.”
And he’s not the only one.

Jonathan Cass, 52, told the Sun says he’ll always avoid women if he believes they might have children.
He said: “I don’t want to be second best.

“Single mums are too expensive. I’m feeling selfish and not dating women with children is part of that.”

Paul Dakers , 45, from Cambridgeshire, says he isn’t “mentally prepared” to deal with the emotions of raising somebody else’s children.

He also admits he wouldn’t be happy spending his money on them.

Dan Mower, 46, says he’s worried about the children walking in when things are getting intimate.

Source: The Mirror

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  1. Interesting

  2. Dating single moms may not be as bad as these men here have mentioned, relationship is a two way stuff, so it depends on both lovers to work towards the relationship.

  3. Egbuwalo Teniola Glory

    Of course everything should revolve around the kids because if it doesn’t work out, the kids are affected too…. If you are not ready for a serious commitment stay away from them

  4. Well dating single mum depends on ur choice if one truly wants it and love the person

  5. To me, people who are scared of dating single mums are men who don’t have the balls, who are there to play. If you really love a woman and want to be committed, that she is a single mum isn’t an excuse. In fact, single mums are the best to be with because they are more experienced and focused.

  6. No commitment, No dating

  7. Nwangene Blessing George

    Yes of course everything should revolve around the kids because when a mother is in a bad relationship with her spouse the children tend to suffer from ir

  8. As far as theirs love,am not against

    • I agree to this story because dating a single is stressfull and bad,the children find it very cope with thier mothers lover and dating a single mother is very very exepensive

  9. Ndubisi Chidimma Lilian

    Dating single moms is not dat bad tho ,it’s depends on wot d both lovers what after all,if a single mom wanna remarry he needs to know and get involved with d man she is about to marry

  10. Chukwurah chinweike Christopher

    The only thing that can make me date a single mum is poverty… What is all these biko

  11. Hmm… Dating a single mum has not always been easy because you’ve got another responsibility to deal with due to the fact that you have to take care of her and her kids and in some cases, the kids might not like you and that’s some ish to deal with.

  12. Dating single mom is the best because she will give you the full respect you deserve.

  13. what is expected of them before….at least you have eyes to see she’s a single mum and u still interested so you should be ready

  14. As far they love each other .they will find a way to work towards it.

  15. Dating single mothers,you should be ready of raising another man’s child

  16. Ezike Onyeka Emmanuel

    It is ungodly to date a single mother.But one can marry a single mother based on God directions.

  17. Njepu Chinenye

    Children shld be put in line, because its going to affect them if anything negative comes out. …besides relationship is not meant for one person, both parties shld work together to make it perfect

  18. Akwue Kingsley chukwuebuka

    Of course dating single mum is not proper.

  19. It depends on the individual but I don’t think there is anything wrong with opinion

  20. Single moms might have issues due to what they might have experienced bin the past but they deserve love too and a chance

  21. Dating a single mom is literally not a bad idea if the guy is serious about it

  22. If it doesn’t work out then leave her

  23. mmm. only lazy men will agree with this

  24. Onyia Ogochukwu Mary

    The people involved knows what they want and know if it’s going to work out between them or not

  25. Nnanyelugo karen

    Getting married to someone who’s not yet married before to start up a family is same as getting married to a single mum… has it’s phase…and gradually we pass each of them.when you get married and your wife’s starts giving birth…a lil more attention than d previous one you get will be drawn to the kids which it’s getting married to a single mother is no difference!
    In as much as you matter to her…her children too does! So you don’t expect an undivided attention

  26. Dating a single mom depends on how loyal the mom is to the guy

  27. Its just based on the lady

  28. Really????
    Single moms are not bad as they say.

  29. please dating a single mom is very stressful

  30. it’s very expensive to maintain them

  31. I don’t like the idea of dating a single mother

  32. Obido chiamaka Genevieve

    There’s nothing wrong in dating a single mum

  33. Agina Gloria Ebele

    I don’t think there is anything wrong in dating a single mother

  34. Ezekwo Chinenye Josephine

    Single mothers still deserve to be loved..

  35. On a second thought,dating a single mom is equally something to be committed to

  36. Onuorah Adaeze Chidimma

    So far as they love each other they will find a way to work towards it…. that’s for sure o

  37. It depends on “the single mom” most of them just need a man figure at home and not for their finance or for anything.

  38. Ezenwajiugo Somto Prosper

    i see nothing wrong in dating a single mum

  39. Ezeifeka Emmanuella

    Nobody wants a extra baggage when dating someone but if a man truly loves the woman then she, having children shouldn’t be difficult for him to accept

  40. Well it depends on the individual.

  41. I don’t see anything wrong dating a single mom …all women are expensive whether single mom or not

  42. Some people self, what is wrong with dating single mum?

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