You might say the best way to know when a Nigerian guy only wants sex from you is by simply asking him; but does that really work? You have to consider the fact that a lot of men (not just Nigerian men) are very far from honesty and they may eventually lie about their intentions. No man wants to be labelled a jerk or chase away his “prey” since they know that giving a positive response to the question might just open up a can of worms.
You can’t also blame a Nigerian woman for reacting badly to being told she is needed for only the purpose of sex. This is because only a few women want to be told outrightly that they are going to be an object for pleasure maybe once or twice and nothing more!
It is not story that woman are fragile and are constantly yearning for love, attention and assurance so whenever they meet a man, the first bell that rings in their head is commitment and loyalty. This is more so when you consider how Nigerian women are raised to be “cultured” and not do things that will shame them or their home. But sadly, men do not reason entirely like women. A man can go various lengths in wooing a woman, not because of love or commitment but for the sole purpose of “getting laid”! He might just see her and get impressed by her physical appearance and he begins to imagine what she’s going to look like when she’s being hit. This alone gingers him to chase his day dreams and by so doing, he thinks of both normal and unbelievable things to do to unveil the package standing right before him.
Now, I’m not trying to say women don’t do these things mentioned above so if you’re a man and you feel cheated and you’re already arguing with your inner self about all that I’ve said then you should scroll up and read the title again. We’re here to talk about how men express themselves both directly and indirectly when they want the almighty cookie and not the other way round. We should get to that right away since you probably can’t wait any much longer to know how exactly Nigerian men behave when they want just sex from you. Here are signs a Nigerian man wants only sex from a lady.
1. WHEN A NIGERIAN MAN WANTS SEX FROM YOU, HE TALKS ABOUT IT ALL THE DAMN TIME !!
“Hey, can I come over tonight for a sleepover? I just want to feel your body against mine”
“I can’t wait for tonight”(so that what will happen ?)
Uncle has not asked you how you are, if you’ve eaten or if you need anything. He wants to come over and spend some time with you in the night. What happened during the day or a public place ? It must always be at your place or his. Also, He can never wait for “tonight”. Or maybe we can just assume he wants to do a vigil with you, nothing more.
2. IF HE’S NOT RELATED TO YOU, THERE’S A 95% POSSIBILITY HE ONLY WANTS SEX FROM YOU
Some men could say to themselves “If she’s not my relative why can’t I get down with her ?”
And that’s it. As long as you both are not related, there’s a 95% possibility that he only wants sex from you the remaining 5% is that he sees you as a sister or he just doesn’t want to have a sexual relationship with you. After all he’s a man and you’re a woman, nothing stops y’all from coming together.
3. IF HE’S ALWAYS FLIRTING WITH YOU, HIS INTENTIONS ARE QUITE OBVIOUS
Ladies, You don’t need a soothsayer to spell it out in your face that a man wants you if you’ve already noticed that he’s always ogling or flirting with you.
He’s checking you out, licking his lips, touching you, teasing you or winking at you every single time he has the opportunity to and you think he just wants to know your name and surname ??
Sorry sis, it’s very far from that. This uncle right here definitely wants you in bed with him.
4. GIFTS CAN NEVER GO WRONG!
Nigerian Men know that one of The easiest ways to a woman’s heart (or pants) is by buying her gifts. There’s this belief that “Nigerian men are not romantic” but when they want to sleep with you, they become as sweet, sexy and as romantic as Hollywood’s Channing Tatum, Leonardo DiCaprio or Zac Efron. You name it!
If your instincts are telling you That there’s something suspicious about the frequent gifts he sends to you then you better believe them.
5. WHEN A NIGERIAN MAN WANTS SEX FROM YOU HE PRETENDS
The way men pretend when they want to sleep with you is quite shocking, some of them begin to act like angels that have been sent from heaven to be with you when they are devils in disguise and the instant they get a taste of you, you will see the true colours. This technique is really tricky and that’s why these days we can’t separate the thirsty wolves from the white sheep. And the worst part of this strategy is that it leaves a lot of women hurt and broken because before these pretentious men devour, they make sure you’ve given them your whole. So scary right ? Then shine your eyes!
6. WHEN A NIGERIAN MAN WANTS TO TAKE YOU TO BED, HE SIMPLY SAYS SO!!
Only a handful of men have the decency to tell women what they want from them and similarly, only a few women will not take it as a big deal. It’s not easy to walk up to a woman and confidently say “Hey, I like you and I want us to have sex” or “Hey I like you and I want us to spend a few nights together at my place, no strings attached” (I could go on and on but you probably get the demo right ?) But we have to give a round of applause to those men who summon courage to say what they want knowing that they may receive a slap or be seen as a sociopath.
This is the surest way to know when a Nigerian man wants only sex from you. There might be another side to the other points stated above.