Girls Should Date More Than 2 Men, Chop Their Money Without Sex – Gospel Artiste, Esaaba Haizel

Ghanaian Gospel artiste, Esaaba Haizel, has advised young ladies to date nothing less than two men to be able to access them before deciding on which one to marry.
The US based singer said doing such will provide the ladies the opportunity of having all their needs catered for. Esaaba Haizel however advised against sleeping with the men.
Speaking on Abusua Fm, the Gospel artiste said,
“I advised young girls on my Facebook wall to have three to five men at the same time without having any s*xual intercourse with them.
“You just have to be firm not to sleep with them. Having multiple partners will help you to study them, then you let the rest go, by choosing just one. Why waste your time to date only one person?
“I’m saying this because you can’t have it all. One of the men would be interested in your business, one would be concerned about the food you eat on daily basis thereby supply your needs, the other will be interested in the shoes, makeups, clothing you wear, the list goes on”
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She quickly added that she is a Christian that is why she has given such important message which will not be given by even Pastors.
“I’m a Christian, is there something wrong with my advice to young ladies who aspire to marry? It’s a good advice your pastor cannot give you”.
(Source: kemifilanisblog)

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Chinenye Nwabueze

Nwabueze is a communication researcher with several years of lecturing experience in Nigerian universities.

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  1. Not just two bt ten
    Lol😂😂😂

  2. 😂😂…shes making sense in some way Shaa…but i dnt like d idea

  3. I strongly disagree with this advise. I believe more in empowering young ladies to be more successful and not depend on the opposite sex for anything whatsoever. A successful woman threatens the opposite sex if y’all dunno that. Take Linda Ikeji for example. She is successful. Would you honestly tell me that kind of lady would need to run after a man or rather men would be the one running after her like their own shadow. Not just lazy ass men o but men of timber and caliber!!! Same goes for Genevieve Nnaji and list of successful women can go on. Ladies let’s tell ourselves the truth! The sooner we realize that we need to empower ourselves and learn to stand firm on our own without the support from the opposite sex, the better for us! #SayNoToBeingLazy #EmpowerTheGirlChild
    #SayNoToBecomingALiabilityToYourSpouse!
    Nwosu Leona Uchechi
    2015054111

  4. It’s not actually a good advice for a young lady as a Christian like you said.You are encouraging her not to be independent.A young girl should be independent to avoid insult from guys.

  5. Nwabugwu Sandra ijeoma

    Not necessary at all….this advice is nonsense instead of building up yourself as a woman u go around dating two men just for marriage sake…..use that time u are using to date those men…and make cool cash for yourself and end up seeing men run after u….

  6. Nwabugwu Sandra ijeoma

    Not necessary at all….this advice is nonsense instead of building up yourself as a woman u go around dating two men just for marriage sake…..use that time u are using to date those men…and make cool cash for yourself and end up seeing men run after u….2015054104
    Nwabugwu Sandra ijeoma

  7. Eze Priscillia Obianuju

    2015054105
    The idea Is a good one but am not in support of dating them just to satisfy your needs, a real woman fends for herself.

  8. Obiechina Ifunanya Vivian

    Obiechina Ifunanya Vivian, 2016054028/DE

    Dating them godly is a wise decision but don’t fully depend on them cause it may flap back. So my advise is, while dating, get yourself something like work or anything that can keep you distracted for the mean time till one of them(Serious one) will now propose… (Smiles)

  9. It is good to have this mindset as a lady that I don’t need a man for anything. it gives you respect

    Name Ekulide Tochukwu
    reg no 2015054034

  10. Smtyms i tend to ask myself if when lucifer was thrown out of heaven did he land in Ghana’s backyard?
    Cus i dnt understand what’s going on with all these Ghanaians. Hmmm
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  11. Is not actually a nice advice to double date more than one man. I guessed we still have good men.

    Anwuka chetachi assumpta
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  12. umeh blessing chinelo

    i wont advise any girl to do so,be a strong women do thing ur self
    2015054106

  13. umeh blessing chinelo

    i wont advice any girl to do such,be ur own boss,not even one ten lolzzz nawaooo
    2015054106

  14. okeke ifunanya favour

    I disagree with this advice of having more than one boy friend because as a lady we should not depend on men and also nobody comes to this planet because of one person or the other…

  15. Nawao

  16. Nnadozie Chikodiri

    Good idea thou but not in support of dating them just to satisfy your selfish needs

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